Thursday, April 10, 2008

Save Marriage, Stop Divorce And Enjoy Your Time With The Loved One!

Here are some small steps that will mean a big difference in your marriage:
  1. Each of you must make a list with the problems in your marriage;
  2. After you make the list ,start discussing every problem that you wrote on the paper;
  3. On the list that you've created establish some goals which involve solving all the problems and of course achieve the goals;
  4. If you want to recover your relationship then try to do some fun activities together, something that you both like or something that you've always wanted to do but didn't do.Now it's time to do it.

These small steps require patience but it saved a lot of marriages before and it could save yours too.

Life after Divorce - Will I Ever Love Again?

The end of a relationship is always tough whether or not it was your decision to end it. You may need to work through some of the following emotions:

Rejection

The person who has been left often experiences feelings of rejection. This can lead to being over critical about yourself - 'what did I do wrong?' 'What do I need to change?

Guilt

If you chose to end the relationship the chances are you are feeling guilty about hurting the person you love or used to love. However, it is sometimes appropriate to end a relationship because it is destructive to one or both partners.

Fear

It is natural to have some fear about venturing out on your own after being part of a couple. The first step is to face those fears - make a list of them and tackle them one at a time.

Anger

It is also natural to have some anger towards your ex and/or about your situation. However, whether this is good or bad depends on how you express that anger. Venting your anger directly at your ex is not helpful.

Grief

The end of a long-term relationship can be cause for grief but this is often not understood by people who have not been through it. Common symptoms of grief are feeling emotionally drained, not sleeping, pushing friends away if they get too close, lack of appetite, rapid mood changes and frequently sighing.