Monday, February 18, 2008

Divorce Reasons

There may be several reasons of excuses for divorce, but some of the most important and famous reasons are stated here:

1. Relationship dissatisfaction - Relationship dissatisfaction is a main cause behind divorce. It arises when a person starts thinking that his/her spouse is not according to their expectations or he/she is not a suitable match for him/her.

2. Presence of another relationship - In some cases extra marital affairs of either wife or husband becomes a reason for divorce. When they start comparing their spouse with current partner and find that his/her life will be better if they end existing relationship and start their life with new partner.

3. Lack of proper communication - It's true that current world is mad behind money and other materialistic things. In that case people are mad behind earning money, and they don't have time to spend with spouse. This lack of communication leads to dissatisfaction in sentimental as well as physical relations and lessen interest in spouse.

Apart from above described reasons there are other reasons also like financial problems, insecurity in relations as well as desire for more in relation. People often forget that all these problems are curable and can be solved on time to avoid divorces and traumatic experiences which is on the way after divorce.

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Divorce Statistics

If you are considering divorce stop looking at divorce statistics as a way to justify what you are planning to do. So what if the divorce statistics show that nearly half of marriages end in divorce, do you really want to think of your marriage as a statistic?

So you want to get divorced does it really matter how many people have been there before you? Can a divorce statistic really help you make such a life changing decision? And if it can shouldn't you ask yourself why?

A divorce decision should be about you and your partner not about a stack of failed marriages which form part of the latest divorce statistics. You are just kidding yourself if you believe divorce can be justified on the grounds of the misfortune of others. Don't we spend our lives trying not to become a mere statistic so shouldn't it be the same with divorce.